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Mistress Profile in Get Kinky MagazineMistress Sabrina WardBy Herman Nietzche
Danger! her flashing eyes sparked in warning as Mistress Sabrina Ward, The Black Widow, skillfully applied her rattan cane to a male submissive's quivering bottom. Like the actual arachnid, I felt she was stinging the male into a coma before she would devour him. The submissive had committed an unforgivable sin and now he was paying for it -- or was he praying for it? How could I tell? Her anger seemed genuine. She had humbled the man verbally with dagger-tongued invectives. She definitely let him know who was in charge. The music crashed in crescendo with her crop -- or was it the other way around? And with a graceful flourish, she vanquished the penitent to submissive heaven. Happily scourged, he knelt before her and paid homage to her feet. As we started our interview after this scene, Mistress Sabrina's Black Widow eyes had softened and her severe expression was open and inviting. " Welcome to my palor, " echoed in the recesses of my mind and I wondered what I was getting myself into by accepting her invitation into her realm. With a deep breath, I began the interview. Herman: Let's start with some general background information. Sabrina: What would you like to know? HN: Age, physical description, education, religion, residence, associations, family life, etc. Or anything you feel is pertinent in letting my readers understand where you are coming from. SW: I was born, I am living, I will die ... the Earth increases. <grin> HN: Well, that's not quite what I had in mind. The Danger! sign sparked in her eyes and I hastily changed the subject. HN: How long have you been interested in fetish? SW: I can recall kinky sex fantasies as early as My late teens. I remember having dreams in My pre-teen years of capturing men in business suits and being captured. To the day, I get a thrill when I see an attractive man in a well tailored suit! It's a passion of mine. I love to capture men in nice suits. HN: What is your fetish forte? SW: What intrigues Me the most is the psychological aspects of psychodrama role playing. Let's face it ... anyone can spank someone ... tie them up ... It takes a Mistress with intuition, a skill perfected from practice and experience, creativity and patience to really get into a slave's MIND. HN: Has there been any movie or literature that influenced you? SW: People have influenced Me more than movies or books. Miss Vicki from Georgia greatly influenced Me in My early career as a dominatrix. I was getting into the scene as she was leaving it and received a few of her slaves. They shared with Me many of her practices and I incorporated them into My sessions. Later, I met Mistress Mia-Joi and Mistress Carla. I have learned much from these women. HN: What should your slaves expect? SW:
Any slave involved with Me can expect to serve an honorable and
ethical Mistress. I care about the slaves I train. I am a strong
woman with a deep respect for the Lifestyle. I never promise what
I can not or will not do. I am a sensualist and all of My scenes
reflect that sensuality but I never engage in sexual practices so
a slave can expect a safe and lawful encounter. HN: What are your favorite implements? SW: My favorite implement is a natural rattan cane. I do not get to use it as often as I would like because it does leave nasty marks with very little effort on My part. I love the way it whistles through the air and the nice dance a slave will do while receiving it! Another favorite of mine is a black flogger made of many strands of thick soft leather, purchased for Me from Zen Whips. I use it often. It’s My first choice for a sensual or strict session. HN: When you are conducting a scene, what are you trying to achieve? SW: Mutual pleasure! HN: What are your feelings about safe, sane and consentual? SW: It's the only way to play. HN: Before beginning a scene, what specific things do you talk about with a potential submissive? SW: My first contact with a slave is usually on the phone. I am straight-forward about the fact that it is NON-sexual role playing. I ask the slave questions regarding his experiences and feelings about the D/s scene. At our first meeting, usually at a restaurant or lounge, I question them further and encourage them to ask questions. Once I deem a prospective slave worthy of My time and of the privilege of entering My World he is first taken to My Antechamber to receive instruction in things such as: the use of a code word, the proper slave positions and the basic rules I enforce in My sessions. Only after satisfying Me that he is ready to enter My Inner Domain is he led on his knees to My Dungeon. HN: When you are in a scene how do you determine when to get harder or softer or to change to another instrument? SW: While training a slave, I watch for reactions. There are subtle changes in expressions particular to each slave. Also, when I am with a new slave, I will allow them three code words until I feel I know them well enough to determine for Myself their limits. They are green, yellow and red. I will ask for a color every now and then and determine by the answer if I am getting into an area that the slave is emotionally or physically ready to go to. In time, the slave will lose the first two and will only have RED as a code word. Interaction, time and experience with a slave allow Me to get to know the slaves requirements and enticements, sometimes better than they know these things themselves. HN: Have you always been a top? SW: My first D/s encounter was with a couple. Mistress Debra would dominate Me and I would assist in dominating Her TV slave Bobra. I will never forget the first time we met. It was My 18th birthday. That 18th birthday party was My first taste of the tutelage I would receive from Mistress Debra. I consider Myself very fortunate to have received such an extensive education at such a young age. Mistress Debra took me under her wing as an apprentice and I enjoyed the lifestyle so much I decided to devote my life to it.
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